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When I had my first son in 2012, I was finishing up my BA in English Lit. I had him in July 2012, went back to school in September, and one week before my May 2013 graduation, found out I was pregnant with his younger brother. My husband (also a college student) went to night classes that summer and worked so I stayed home with our toddler during the pregnancy. When our second baby boy was born in January 2014, I stayed home and tried to find a groove with two small children as I watched my friends go off to…